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Monday, March 29, 2010

生活品味 X 品味生活

一直以来,我都可以将自己归类为:"提倡健康生活"的一族。为什么?因为我爱自己,我希望自己可以身体健康,因为脑袋里实在有太多想要做的事情,却还未做到。

以下的生活是我一直以来所向往的,但愿离开这里后的我,能够重新规划自己的生活作息,让自己更爱自己。

让自己拥有完美的生活之前,条件分为两类:
1:实物,既是必须拥有一间属于自己的家,尤其是舒适的睡房,以及厨房!因为,厨房就是让自己活得健康的一大工具!
2:毅力,不能够三分钟热度。必要持之与恒!

24小时里,最重要的当然是晚上拥有足够的睡眠,以及在每个早晨扮演着非常重要角色的- 早餐!可以的话,一定要在上班前的半个小时,为自己准备一份丰富的早餐,让自己好好坐下来品尝。不需要太过花巧,只需要一杯浓郁芬芳的热黑咖啡,加上面包或饼干,就能为我的早晨画上一个美好的开始。轻尝早餐之余,最好能够翻翻报纸,让自己知道当天的国家大事,或是娱乐界的八卦新闻也不错。过后,我要以轻盈不急促的步伐踏上上班的路途。

午餐时间当然不能过于着重健康食品,毕竟,外面卖的健康食品往往比不健康的来得昂贵, 也不容易找。而且本身也不能当独行侠,还是需要迎合同事之间的喜好。

而打拼了一天过后,回到温暖的家,冲个热水凉,为自己准备简单的晚餐。菜单最好是水果拼盘,或面包类,意大利面,清淡的水煮面,或青菜,就已经很完美了。一个星期最好有2-3天的跑步/运动日,好让自己消耗不必要的热量,以及让自己趁机松懈下来。

而周末呢,我不会强迫自己要早睡早起,让我来个自然醒吧!拜六就会集中于我的大扫除,洗衣,洗地,洗厕所。。就这样就过了我整个下午。晚上若不想出去,最享受的莫过于能够一个人坐在舒服的沙发上看光碟,喝杯白酒,再加点小吃。当有点醉醺醺时,就能倒头就睡,直到第二天的假日。


礼拜天,可以到郊外或者海边走走,再为我的相机谋杀一些菲林,让它记录下我生活的点点滴滴,这该有多美好啊。再不然也可以约个三五知己,一起闲聊和品尝下午茶,过个慵懒的下午。那该多好啊!

好有贵族feel!
期待期待。。。

Thursday, March 25, 2010

活着,真好

摔倒了又有什么呢,再站起来就行了。摔倒的同时仰望天空,蓝蓝的的天空今天也是广阔无边地微笑着,我是活着的。
哭得泪流满面,上个星期开始重看‘一公升的眼泪’,从第一集到最后一集,我的却给了这部由真人真事改篇的日剧流了将近1公升的眼泪。
3年前第一次看时,没有那么严重。也许年长了,经历过的事情多了些,就比较容易感触,被感动。以前看悲剧时,都不会这样,曾经觉得自己很冷血。但是,现在不一样了,有点感动的场面,都足于让我的眼眶泪汪汪的。
说回这部剧吧,描述一个15岁刚入高中,正值青春洋溢,对未来充满憧憬的女生,不幸罹患了一种不能医治的病-- 「脊髓小腦萎縮症」,一種會逐步奪去行動及說話能力,直至身體機能完全停止的不治之症。
她非常的伤心,却也努力的与病魔抗战,以及不断鼓励观众要努力的活下去,提醒大家活着真好的意义。
“我不能活动,也没有办法帮助任何人,但是我想生存下去!”
最让我感动的是陪伴在她身旁的家人,尤其是那伟大的母亲。可想,当母亲不容易,自己暗自痛苦,又不能了解女儿所忍受的痛。这部剧让我领悟到了不少人生道理,让我知道,当有梦时就该追逐;当能快乐时,就不要吝啬自己的笑容;当有疼爱你的家人,朋友时,就要珍惜;当身边有人愿意陪你度过生活时,就该接受。
其实很多东西,我们都知道,不断的有这些故事,短片及文章,重复性的提醒大家不要忘记这些能让自己快乐的真正道理。

也许,“死亡并不可怕,可怕的是我们在死亡面前轻易就放弃自己”。

Monday, March 22, 2010

父母 X 小孩

小孩,该怎么教?
身为父母的,身教很重要,自己的言行举止很重要,身边的朋友很重要,总而言之,小孩子很容易被身边的人,事,物影响,尤其是12岁以下的。
1至12岁的这个阶段,身为父母的,若有任何参差,分分钟这个小孩的下半身就会完蛋。父母对孩子疏忽照顾,把他一个人扔在家里,认为12岁的他,会自己乖乖的做功课,谁知道,他在家里玩电脑,打电话与朋友闲聊? 成绩逐渐下滑,没有去想背后的原因到底是什么,只是一味与他吵嘴,认为他苯,认为他应该要补习,认为他不专心。为什么不想想自己本身身为母亲的问题?
12岁后,叛逆期逐渐逼近,身边的好友若不是什么品行兼优的,再加上自己对孩子的疏忽,即疏于管教的话,那就恭喜你了,他的前途也会跟着那一群同党没什么两样。加上现在科技发达,按一按键盘,想要看什么短片,什么资料,好的坏的,网上一应俱全。

看过父母骂粗口的,孩子也跟着学。外人想提醒他,他说他妈妈也是这样。
看过父母骂自己孩子笨蛋,如猪脑。那好吧,小孩就像猪一样继续学习。
看过父母说一大堆不正规,不对搭的语言。那好吧,小孩也一样把它们写在要交的作文簿里。
还有很多很多。

我曾经告诉自己,若有机会的话,我要孩子在最完美的家庭环境里成长,我要给予他美丽的童年,自己与另一半树立一个好榜样给他看。
但是,说就容易,当要实行的时候,就真的需要很多耐力,金钱及鼓励。

不想生,就不要做;不想教,就不要生。
不要给自己烦恼,不要让这个社会不小心多了个寄生虫!

3 of YOU

YAY! in 75 days, i'm going to bring 3 of you to Hokkaido & Japan! :)
YOU -- new Panasonic Lumix LX3 (photos by: http://euyoung.blogspot.com/)

and YOU! diana F+

and finally YOU! my little baby Diana :)

and of course, my red scale film, 120mm film and battery for flash, charger for lumix :)

Saturday, March 13, 2010

名副其实的古城

翻看上一年农历新年时,去马六甲的照片。
乍看之下,原来马六甲真的是那么有风味,那么有感觉。
都不知道是不是自己生活在城市太久,
看到这种难得一见的建筑物或情景,
总会觉得好激动,好感动.

看到那些剖落的漆,可以知道这栋建筑物受了多少风吹雨打,住在里面的人,历经了多少的沧桑。

铺满灰尘的道具,家私,觉得这些东西一定服务了很多人,带给了他们很多便利。


看见老人家与三五知己在屋外乘凉,都会觉得他们一定是劳碌了整大半世人,现在难得能够偷闲,是件多么温馨及幸福的事。

Saturday, March 6, 2010

幸福流逝

近来看的书是深雪著作的‘幸谣说’。一贯她的作风,奇奇怪怪,天荒夜谈。
这次,让我留意到当中一句- ‘幸福的流逝,代表新的幸福将会诞生’。

书中女主角是一位可以预知未来的使者,她拥有完美的外表,完美的事业,完美的心灵,完美的男友。但是,有一天她却预知2年后的她将会失去爱情,她的人生不再完美。
不过,她并没有利用传递者,去阻止这一切的发生,反而选择接受,因为他相信就算这段幸福流逝了,未来的幸福将会等待他。

所以,很多事情真的不需要过于执著。
而我,已经决定放弃一段幸福,
因为,我相信,这段幸福流逝后,另一段幸福才能够诞生。对吗?^^

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

♥ Japan

First of all, let me do some brief introduction about my 'intimate' relationship between myself & Japan. People who don't know me surely don't know that i'm quite crazy about Japan. Everything about Japan, from human til sake.

The first time i ate Japanese food was when I'm secondary school, 2 of my sisters brought me to Allson Hotel @ Seremban (now become Adelphi) to try this Japanese buffet lunch. My very first time with Japanese food!! i don't take raw food and i only ate tenpura. After that, i don't have much memory about that.

Until i reach singapore 8 years ago to do my study here. Due to money constraint, i have to find part time job to earn pocket money T.T, which i don't regret at all, as i feel so happy during that time :)
My elder sister recommended me to work in a Japanese restaurant where she has a friend who work as sushi chef over there. Plenty of Japanese customers go there for dinner, esp those lonely + 'ham sap' Japanese ojisan. hahahah.
I started to involve into their japanese culture - almost 90 degrees bow, very polite, always HAI!, act ka-wa-i smile.. start to fall in love with Japanese food, start to eat sashimi *yummy!* ..and my first time to get in touch with alcohol is warm sake, which almost make me shut down after a few glasses of that...
after 2 years of work, i quit and joined in another Japanese restaurant which offer higher paid. 2 of the bosses are japanese, obviously, they tend to attract more regular japanese customers, and i met my very best friend in Singapore - Miki who is working as full-timer there :)

Besides working, I decided to take part time course in Japanese language due to all above mentioned items. after almost 4 years, I'm still not an expert, which make me quite frustrated some time :( so, i will work harder by self-study this year!

OK sorry, back to my main topic. Well, guess the most interesting life i gain in Singapore is I get to know more about Japan. But, after waited for so many years, finally i received this fabulous information from my classmate - Jun San regarding this exchange programme - WWOOF. I don't need to spend a lot (which is my main concern for not travel to Japan after so many years), i pay for my own airticket and other transportation/ pocket money, i help my host to work, and in return, they will provide me with free meals & accomodation!

After a long research on CHEAP air ticket fly to Japan, finally i have made my mind! Tour will start from 6th June - 30th June! and I will have a long break after so many years of work!

The place that I'm heading to is Hokkaido - a place named "Sounkyo 層雲峡" (the kanji name sound like those old martial movie right..haha).. I have totally no idea where is this place! But i know i'm going to a host who own a backpacker hostel over there, and this is a place full of natural resources ♥

From what i 'google', guess this place is very famous for their 'onsen' - hot spring!!! beautiful waterfall, valley and mountain climbing... wohooo~ ♥



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